Parent Resources

In order to help a child understand the world and how they should properly function in it, you must first understand your child and how they function.
 

To put it simply, every child is made up of four primary dimensions: physical, emotional, social, and spiritual. Understanding these four dimensions and how you can help your child grow as these dimensions develop over the years can lead to health and holistic parenting.

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Infants and Toddlers (0-3 yrs)

Pre-K and Kindergarten (4-6 yrs)

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Early Elementary (7-10 yrs)

Preteen (11-12 yrs)

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FAQ

Punishment and Discipline

Why doesn't my child respond to discipline? What should I do?

In order for discipline to be effective, it must be painful. Hitting them where it hurts (whether through the removing of a favorite toy or privilege) will help them to feel pain and know what they did was wrong.

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Resistant Bahaviors

My child never listens to me. What should I do?

When children refuse to listen to their parents, it shows a lack of respect for authority. One thing you can do as a parent is follow through with punishments. When you follow through, they know you mean business.

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Struggling to Make Friends

 What should I do?

Many times, children don't like to be with other children because they have not been given the opportunity to do so. As a parent, provide opportunities for them to relate with others and even allow them to solve their own problems with others.

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Dealing with Bullies

My child is being bullied. What should I do?

Children may find dealing with a bully difficult if their parents always solve their problems for them. Instead, help them to learn skills to deal with the situation themselves. You may also need to contact the person in charge.

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Seperation Anxiety

My child doesn't want to leave me.  What should I do?

Children need reassurance that you are coming back. Remind them that you love them, and help create ways for them to interact with others while you sneak away. Relationships with others will help to make the transition smooth.

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Death and Grief

A family Member died. How do I tell them?

When delivering difficult news, it is important to consider their age and their maturity level. Be honest with your child, and explain the difficult news in a simple manner. Although children need to know the truth, they are also sensitive people.

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Technology and Phones

My child wants a phone. What should I do?

When considering buying a phone for your child, consider why they need it, what it will be used for, and the rules that will be used with it. When possible, ensure your child develops relationships other ways until a phone is necessary.

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Distant and Uninterested

My child doesn't want to talk to me.  What should I do?

Even when your child may not be interested in you, you must remind them of your interest in them. Do not back off from your child. Instead, invest in spending time with them and doing things that they enjoy.

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External Help and Counseling

My child might need counseling. What should I do?

Recognizing that help is needed is a big and important step for both you and your child. To receive resources as well as guidance toward potential counseling options, reach out to the church office by email.

Church email: cbfc@cbfc.net

 

Additional Resources

 

We know as parents that your time is limited. That is why we have collected a variety of the best resources, steps, and tools to share with you. These resources are downloadable, easy to use, and provide information on a variety of topics.

Whether you have time to spare by perusing each site or only have enough time to download the resources for later viewing, we hope these resources guide you towards being a better parent.

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